Do you want to meet a dominant woman? First, don’t begin by babbling continuously about your needs, and your wants because, this is NOT the way of a true submissive, and she will run. Every woman is potentially dominant. Coax it out of her by atering to her needs, by pampering her but never, and I do mean NEVER ask her to punish you, remember, she is the dominant, not you. You must accept that she may decide to punish you by not whipping you because, you seem to enjoy it too much for it to be a punihment for you. If all you desire is a strapping, call a Pro Domme and have what you desire but, this is NOT femdom. Have you ever been stapped? Be very very careful what you wish for because, you just may receive it. Granted, nothing could be more sexy than being met at the door by my wife holding a strap but, the pleasure ends with the thought as, when the leather begins to fall, and your eyes widen as never before in your life you will understand that the thing you seek in your mind is much different than the realities of the flesh. Pain is very real. The pain a good strap causes is not to be taken lightly. Fantsy is fun but, a real punishment whipping issomething to absolutely fear because, oh, it is going to be very painful, most likely beyond what your physical body can endure, it’s supposed to be this way, you are not supposed to like it, punishment is supposed to suck. S&M may be your kink. Believe me, I am not seeking to belittle you or your desires but if pain is all that yu seek Femdom is not for you. If all you desire is pain that’s S&M.