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F/m Bastinado (Foot Whipping Punishment)

Female Led Foot Whipping

Some time ago I got in touch with female mistress, about trying a foot whipping, e.g., -bastinado-, a caning on the soles of the feet. I’m a 31 year old, straight white male. I guess I am what is known as a “switch”, being neither strictly dominant nor submissive, but can “play” both roles. However, my main “thing” is I have a strong fetish for feet. (Female feet, but my own feet has also some “special” status.) Still, (due to my somewhat “macho” attitudes), I don’t feel all comfortable to get involved in a female domination scenario. Anyway, I still wanted to try a (hard) foot whipping, because I have experimented a lot on myself, (mostly when I was younger). I suspected I might get a kick out of the pain e.t.c., (and perhaps even some from being dominated and punished. What feels uncomfortable, might also often be very exciting.)

Another good reason I have, is that I would like very much to give a female a foot whipping, and I needed to get more experience, what it feels likes, and if my ideas of “technique” was correct. Because the soles of the feet are very sensitive, it is actually kind of tricky to perform a “nice” foot whipping. It can easily hurt too much, and very much so. Different parts on the feet’s soles have different sensitivity to pain, which makes it even more difficult. (So why not stay off the feet and whip on that ass, like normal folks? Well, female behinds surely are nice, but for me they do come next after the feet.)

I discussed my ideas with mistress, henceforth referred to as Madame, by phone. I had sent her some different scenarios we could play. Even if being dominated would not be the main ingredient, I still wanted some kind of punishment scenario. (I’ve always liked such.) We discussed some details, and decided on a time, and that I drive and visit her.

I showed up at her place. I had brought some implements, I believed would be appropriate. A rattan cane, actually purchased from the Wildfire club, (http://www.zynet.co.uk/elektra/wildfire/). It is rather small, a “junior school cane”, but certainly very efficient on the sensitive soles of the feet. I also brought a plastic tube cane. It’s very much equivalent to a cane, but much less likely to break, and a step more severe than the junior school cane. (It also provides a nice storage protection for the junior school cane, keeping it straight.)

Madame was 40 years old. Not the most beautiful woman I have seen, but I don’t find that to be of any importance for this particular activity. (As it happens I am very sensitive to appearance and age, but a mistress need not be a photo model, neither is the age of any great concern. Around 40 is just fine.) She had dressed up for the occasion, in black dress, nylons, high heels and some S/M accessories, most notably a spiked necklace. She was very nice and easy to talk to. As I already noted by our conversation on the phone, she had no problem to understand what I was looking for.

I showed her some of my techniques, and demonstrated lightly on her feet, so she would get a feeling for what it’s like. We found a “punishment position” in that I would lie face down, on her sofa, with the feet tied together, and resting on the arm-rest, so that she could cane my soles with the strokes crossing both feet. My big toes would be tied together, so booth soles would become a good caning target. It’s is quite easy to hit that way, and the most delicate spots on the soles, the arches, get some natural protection, became the cane can’t reach there. There’s good access to all the sensitive pads on the soles, which I prefer to cane on, because they are also very tough.

She had decided on a “naughty stable boy” punishment scenario, out of those I had proposed. We started the actual scene. I had expected her to switch into some kind “reverend mother”, using the “voice” on me or something, but she wasn’t very commanding. (I wouldn’t recommend her to take up an acting career, and neither should I, BTW.) She reprimanded me a little for “not keeping clean in the stable” e.t.c. I tried to play along. Well, she had a certain style, so I shouldn’t be too disappointed. Then, I had to lie down for my punishment, and she took my socks off, and tied my feet.

The first strokes wasn’t exactly devastatingly painful. I had chosen the implement, (the school cane), to be sufficient according to my “caning skills”. She had never previously used an English school cane, and she didn’t get the swishing “cane sound” right. After a while she got a little better hang of it, and it started to become a bit painful. I had requested she deliver around 50 strokes, but we didn’t keep the count. She switched to the plastic cane. It hurt. Especially across the balls of the feet. I had instructed her to cane harder on the heel pads, and take it easier on the balls of the feet. She followed that pretty well, but only a few times could she manage land a painful stroke across my heels.

She took a couple of breaks, and had me to worship her feet. I kissed her nyloned feet a little, but got more foot whipping, as I (of course) didn’t kiss good enough. She had nice nylons. (I love nyloned feet.) Her bare feet was OK, for her age, and I sucked her toes a little. She had no foot sweat or smell, which I otherwise appreciate a lot, on female feet.

The foot caning continued, and she was actually getting herself a workout. She made a few good strokes, but then she had to rest. I was rather happy with that, because there’s something special with the balls of the feet, or just where the arches meets the balls. A few strokes, builds up an incredible constant grinding pain, that drives you crazy. I made a lot of reactions to the pain, and tried to “play it well”, according to the scenario. A few times she was actually approaching my limits. I’m not sure, but I seem to have above average tolerance to pain, she also seemed to hold back a bit, knowing how painful it was. As I had expected, she was quite a bit surprised of my pain tolerance, but not totally amazed.

Anyway, I probably received some 200-300 strokes all in all. I know that sounds a lot, but only some 100 of these were directly painful (good) ones, and it sure took some time. I’m a bit disappointed with my own excitement during the punishment. I had expected to be almost able to cum from the sheer situation of being punished. The pain was nice and “right”, but I never came. I tried to masturbate, but I have a problem with that. I think it’s “too embarrassing”, and that it destroys the atmosphere of a scene. Funny you may say, as lying there and being caned under the feet, isn’t embarrassing enough to start with! Anyway, it’s the way I see it. (I’m real jealous of girls that may cum almost un-noticed, and without making a big mess. Well, some girls do make a mess as they come, but that’s very uncommon.) The reward came with the after effects. We didn’t go so far that I “safeworded”, but just decided to stop at a point when Madame, seemed to think it was becoming boring, (and looked kind of tired). We could have taken it a bit further, but I decided it felt kind of nice, and that I wanted to feel the after effects at this level.

Immediately afterwards, my soles were quite sore, but most notably -hard- and slightly swollen. I had expected swelling to set in later, but this stiff/hard effect was something new. I could feel some pain when I walked. I like the concept of “walking on punished soles”, so that was nice to try. My feet also sweated a lot during the punishment. Since, I love females sweaty feet, that was a kind of nice observation, that “feet about to be punished sweat a lot”. A dull aching pain started afterwards and peaked some two hours afterwards. I also noted some nice bruises on my soles. These are not where the hardest strokes hit, but in the fleshy arches and on the sides of the feet. (In a similar fashion that sprained ankle bruises, have a tendency to “sink” down and end up along the rims of the soles.) I don’t bruise easily, so I guess the caning wasn’t that meek after all.

It seems to be far from that any larger blood vessels would have been damaged, and I can feel no indications of any possible nerve damage. (I was slightly worried about this, before.) I find the (slight) damage done, kind of nice. I expected to feel some effects, a day after, but as I write now, I (unfortunately?) feel the pain decreasing rather rapidly, and I guess it will be negligible tomorrow. (The feet do have a remarkable healing rate, and they are after all evolved to take some punishment from running e.t.c.)

As I knew from experience, the heel pads are remarkably tough. They are our “backup shock absorbers”. (The knees and thigh muscles are the primary, assisted by the feet and calf muscles are.) There was no after effects on my heel pads, (somewhat to my disappointment). I would have preferred an even distribution of pain, on the soles. We intentionally avoided the toes, since the delicate bones and joints can be damaged.

I have heard a lot about a variant of bastinado, where the soles of the feet are only tapped gently with a cane, but the process becomes unbearably painful, after a few hours. I usually refer to this as the “slow bastinado”. This form is said to have a “dreaded, painful after-effect”. “As the victim tries to walk the day after, the soles explodes in pain”. I believe we have verified that effect, to some degree, because of the number of strokes I received. I don’t think I’ve gained much insight about a -really- hard foot whipping, but I still gained some valuable experience.

Unfortunately, I cannot say much about the feet being supposedly more painful targets for punishments. (I wouldn’t let anyone cane my ass.) I don’t think the grinding pain build-up, would occur on any other spot, but the feet. Perhaps the palms of the hands. Conversations with other people have given me some indications the feet are indeed more painful targets. In my view, the feet should at least have a high “pain to damage ratio”, but perhaps not as high as I previously thought.

To sum up, I think I had a rather memorable experience. Not everything was exactly perfect or worked as I had imagined, but the major parts of it did. I’ll probably do this again, and then quite a bit harder.

(NB: Bastinado is best left in fantasy. Some seemingly simply acts are more problematic and risky than you might expect.)

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