Before punishing her submissive male this Mistress always talks to him and tells him why she is going to punish him. She makes sure that he understands that spanking him is not a sign that she doesn’t love him.
He needs behavioral reinforcement: pain will make him mindful.
Then she walks him to the special place set aside for his discipline sessions. There he receives a careful and consistent punishment spanking.
She again tells him exactly why she punished him. And has him repeat it back to her in words of his own. Proof he understand his misbehavior.
Then the slate is wiped clean. She has forgiven him and there is no residual anger.
Originally posted 2014-08-20 07:31:13.